"You should be social more often."
"You’re so closed off."
"You hurt my feelings when you don’t want to hang out."
OKAY. I am NOT sorry for preferring to be by myself. That’s how I relax. I don’t HAVE to be around people 24/7. There’s this personality trait called INTROVERSION that makes me have a preference for alone time having to recharge after a week of work or going out* every weekend for a while. That doesn’t make me MEAN or ungrateful and making me feel GUILTY about it is the quickest way to make me recoil even more. If you disturb my alone time or bug me constantly, yes, I might react a little annoyed/on edge. I remove myself from situations on purpose so backing off would be appreciated.
*By going out, I mean errands or day trips, etc etc.
I LIKE QUIET. Not having to talk all the time or act a certain way that’s appropriate in groups is NICE.
I don’t get why people do not understand that. I am done apologizing.
There’s nothing wrong with girls who do a lot to maintain their appearance and there’s nothing wrong with girls who do very little to maintain their appearance but there’s something extremely fucking wrong with girls who think it’s okay to judge girls for doing either or. Shut your crusty ass up for 10 seconds and let a bitch live.
Crusty. Ass. 👌